I use Photoshop extensively and understand the difference between a pixel editor and a catalogue.
So you say, but this has nothing to do with catalogs. ACR has no such catalog, and it too is a parametric editor identical to LR without a catalog! In fact, you can bounce back and forth between the two if on version parity, using the same settings and engine. And again, pixels never come into play until an image is rendered from the edits and part of the rendering is specifying the number of pixels you want rendered.
I think you need to study the product(s) a lot more before continuing to provide your opinion of how they
should operate.
Knowing the pixel dimensions of a crop to me is really important because I shoot product regularly for the same customer and the products need to have the same relative size as last time.
And in EITHER product, you'd produce a export preset (in ACR, a workflow option) to produce
exactly the pixels, big depth, color space and more you desire.
A crop in either product crops nothing, it produces an instruction alone. The resulting pixels must be defined and then rendered, from a crop or without a crop.
This isn't Photoshop! Nor Aperture. If you can't get hip to the workflow as designed, find another product.
Also is it too much to ask for a progress bar on import?
There is one. If you don't see one, either you don't know where to look or you have some issues of which we can maybe look into, but one exists.