Regarding your comment about American leaders not having to worry about parents because their kids are volunteers, I think your position is very unfeeling. Regardless of being a volunteer or not, these are Americans getting killed. The fact is they are patriotic and volunteered. That should be appreciated and respected. Some members have volunteered for multiple tours of duty in the Middle East risking their lives every time they went. They should be protected because they are our sons and daughters. I am sure you would want the same if they were your soldiers.
I don't disagree with any of this, what I said was very cynical. But when it comes to rich selfish people in power, I don't believe it's possible to be cynical enough. We use terms like "leaders", "founding fathers", etc., but I think we would be better off if we thought of them as "employees". In the Vietnam era, it was not unknown for sons of gentry to miss the shooting, as I remember it, they're not like you and me.
A few times in these pages, some people have expressed thoughts along the lines of "he won the election, let's see what he does and we'll judge him at the next election". I disagree with this, not just with Trump, I'd say it with any of them. Like any employee, you have to watch them and judge their performance all the time. Except for a small number of CEOs, at Amazon, Apple, Google, who apparently can rule with the authority of feudal landlords (a mistake imo), all others report to someone somewhere. The President is not the CEO of the country, he's not your daddy, he's not your king, he's just the guy you hired to do a job and like all powerful employees, they need to be watched all the time. It's a shame nobody was watching harder at GM, the investment banks, Enron, AIG, etc., might have saved a lot of people some pointless suffering. Our responsibilities as citizens in a democracy do not end when we leave the voting booth.