For the better part of a month, I took a break from this forum. I did so around the same time that
faberryman and
jeremyrh stated that they would no longer be posting. Speaking for myself, the reason was simply disgust.
A poster in this thread had earlier attributed racist thoughts and even falsely attributed racist statements to jeremy. Understandably, it left jeremy pretty upset. There was a strong negative reaction at the time from multiple posters to the false attributions, but there was no apology—only doubling down followed by pleas of victimhood from the offender. It came up again in another thread and after seeing rationalization and minimization made by another poster—with whom I have had both constant disagreement, but for whom I also had respect—that it was just an inference, I was just too disgusted by the whole scene and decided to walk away for awhile.
The scene hasn't changed. There are still plenty of assertions made that are amusing, sad, false, misleading,
ill-informed, or occasionally
disgusting. Despite that, I've resumed posting and I hope that someday we will see posts again from fabberyman and jeremyrh.
In the meantime, I'll occasionally post whatever I feel is of interest or relevance to myself and attempt to avoid falling into the trap of replying to posters with merry-go-round arguments, full of the repetition, deflection, and diversion favored by those pushing a narrow and rigid ideological agenda.
It isn't my forum, so it isn't my place to offer invitations. But, I would welcome seeing posts from fabberyman and jeremyrh again. Of course, I would also understand if they're simply done with this place.