At this time I do not know what is required to connect and if new software required exactly what will work and the cost I am on Windows 10
Your best bet is to forget trying to run it on a modern W10 system, but break out an old W98/XP 32bit system with a normal RS232 serial port.
It's not particularly resource heavy, so you ought to be able to pick up an old system for peanuts.
Yes, if working, it's a very good spectro, but as Andrew says it's noisy and painfully slow compared to contemporary systems. Hence why running it on a dedicated old system makes sense.
If PMP 3.5 doesn't work and I'm not sure that the Spectralino necessarily had a built in dongle, you should probably manage to pass the data to Argyll to build a profile in.