Go to the B&H Photo website and select tripods and then use all the filters they provide for collapsed length, working height, weight, load capacity, etc. and get a short list and then look at the reviews to spot any problems with any models. From that I create a table in a word processor or spreadsheet application for the finalists with all the key criteria input. At a glance I can decide which 2 or 3 tripods will be the best for my particular set of needs and then choose one.
This takes a couple of hours but you will be far better able to decide on the next tripod to buy than by asking people on a forum who have different needs.