Hi,
As a small reflection, I used to have a Sony Alpha 900 and now I also have a Sony Alpha 99. The Sony Alpha 99 has significantly higher rating in DxO mark than the Alpha 900, and that difference is in all areas.
DR is better on the Alpha 99, but it took me three months and duping a Velvia slide to see the difference. The main reason is, I guess, that lens flare rather than sensor limits DR in real world shots.
High ISO capability is better on Sony Alpha 99, precisely as stated by DxO.
I can also mention that I was on a workshop in the Dolomites with Hans Kruse (recommended). Hans was shooting both Canon 5DIII and Nikon D800 (with or without E), as he wanted be able to support customers shooting both systems. I felt that he liked the Canon better but with Nikon he could push the shadows quite a bit. The consequence was that he needed to expose to the right or use HDR on Canon, while on Nikon ETTR was less critical.
So DxO data is relevant, but it says little about the cameras, just measures the image quality of the sensor.
Best regards
Erik