Just in case anyone else has video issues, I spoke to soon. stranger and stranger. I was able to delete 2 videos then Lightroom hung up and I got a new message videosystemerror:unknownmessage:bindSuccess and things would not play or do anything. another interesting deal in the recycle bin now there were 2 files the video and a .THM file for each video deleted from lightroom. Closed it down and tried again and now back to will not delete from disk. also buggy unless I let video files completely load audio.
So I am back to my original work around Lightroom previews better than bridge so check them out and note numbers of ones to delete. then close lightroom and open bridge and delete videos I do not want (no .THM files from bridge) then close bridge. And back to lightroom to go to videos that now have the exclamtion point and delete from catalog to clean up the catalog.
Kind of like using my plugins in CC and CC2014. They were working fine in CS6. And know they crash CC and CC2014 unless I work around by saving and closing files and then have to reopen and sometimes close PS and reopen and not do anything except go straight to the plug in so that PSdoes not crash. (yes every update since CC I have had to go to the plug in web site and download latest versions and they still do not work right.)
And I have newest and latest video drivers etc. Since when back at begining of the cloud deal when it totaly would not work and I let a tech take over and she trashed everything on my system and I had to redownload stuff for a week. all kinds of stuff nothing to do with adobe.
And no I am not here just bashing adobe I have been using the stuff since photoshop5 and lightroom 3 and have bought lots of videos from this site as well, I just would like to be able to work on my work instead of working to make my tools work. Again thanks for the help and sorry about going off topic