So what exactly did you mean?
Meant to be sorta ironic snark.

About how wannabes and techies rag on her - "she doesn't even do her own lighting", "she just walks in and pushes the button."
I think, like you - she is doing it, I'm not. It's all just jealous sniping based on gossip.
When you have the vision, and consistently deliver iconic, world class, stunning imagery on the highest level. Well, take a close look and see what you can learn from someone who delivers, day after day, for 40 years, on the biggest, riskiest, most expensive and high pressure shoots. "Marie Antoinette" stills from that movie about her, etc. I still have that on my photo archive server, I'll have to watch it again for inspiration.
I realized when I woke up at 4 am that your post probably went astray from the "too complicated" thread? Oh well.
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I am really stunned to hear what you have gone through health wise! Congrats on making it. It is sobering to think that X numbers of years ago we might not still be here ...
It gives you a bit of perspective, doesn't it? It is so hard to adjust to limitations as we get older. Sounds like you are on the right track, with a good team you like and trust.
There is a good - though dated - book called "Men's Passages", about how our roles become less about "I" and more communal as we age. As you said - it doesn't matter who pushes the button And photography is so physically demanding.
Wow, I am glad to hear you are doing so well. Please take care of yourself! OT, but the one thing that helps me most, more than my 5 pain meds, etc. is meditation. I'll just leave it at that for now.
Cheers! I hope you are almost healed! M.