Dave,
I think people always do a bit of both when they post their photos (show off a bit
and seek feedback).
While everyone enjoys a bit of praise, in speaking for my own experience, I have learned more through criticism and suggestion than by any any other means. The great thing about gaining the perspective of your peers (and especially the perspective of those with a lot more experience) is they can "see things" that you might not be able to see, even in your own images. In other words, sometimes your own face is "too close to the tree" to be able to see
the woods.
That said, if a person is "afraid" to be criticized, then let him choose another vocation. I don't always agree with the criticism I get, but I appreciate
anyone who is willing to type a few sincere words (be they praise
or criticism) on what they see (or don't see) in my efforts.
Gaining others' perspectives is (quite literally) what enables you to broaden your own vision, so IMO anyone who doesn't heartily welcome "that" isn't an honest person by nature, just a vain person.
Jack
PS: And, yeah, Slobodan may be a mouthy guy when he wants to be (
), but he
also is the kind of guy who, when I asked him for some help on how he went about re-working a photo I posted, took
at least a few hours of his time to create and send me
a 6-page .pdf instructional on how he rendered a version of my work, which to me is pretty rare these days. Sometimes the harshest critics can actually turn out to be your greatest teachers.
.