It doesn't end with profiling your monitor. You also need a consistent light source (a compact fluorescent or daylight is not going to cut it because the first is missing huge parts of the spectrum and the second is not reliably reproducible, and the color temperature of daylight changes throughout the day) and you also need to soft proof when doing a screen to print comparison using the ICC profile that your lab provides with "simulate paper color" checked. Keep in mind that the correct color temperature setting is not what someone tells you to set it to (this means nothing unless someone has *specific* knowledge of your light source (because if your monitor is profiled to provide a match using a 5000ºK light source and you change it to a 3500ºK light source, it's no longer going to match), and the behavior of the colorimeter that you own (not the behavior of the same model, but the *actual* colorimeter that you own as most are fairly inconsistent from copy to copy in terms of the color temp that they report). So, the correct setting is the one that provide the best visual match. If the color temp appears too cool at 6500ºK then reduce it to 6250ºK or 6000ºK until the screen and the print match.
Cheers, Joe