In all cases I was referring to psychological/existential "mud", not physical mud or dirt. There still is no contradiction. Please re-read.
I strongly suggest that
you do the re-reading.
Honestly - I am not sure if you are either just joking and enjoying yourself by doing so, trying to tensly win something in this discussion by some sophistic tactics or are simply misguided.
LOL, thank you, I am enjoying myself immensely

Self irony or taking another perspective and leaving the normal day to day identity for a moment generally is not a sign for any sort of personality disorder, but a basic means of communication.
Self-examination, for the purpose of attempting to acertain one's own behavior, and how it might look from "another's" perspective, can indeed be a good thing. However, this is typically done in silence, and for the purposes of introspection.
Talking publicly about oneself, from the perspective of being "another self," however, in some habitual manner is something else entirely, and is neither normal nor a basic means of communication.
If mothers couldn't take the perspective of the baby to supply it properly we all would be much more disturbed than we usually are.
Your example here completely misses the point. A mother taking the perspective of a baby is called "empathy." Empathy (or even sympathy) for another being, when used to try to understand its needs properly, is not the same thing as referring to oneself as another being separate from oneself.
A mother acting and speaking as if she's the child would be pathological, and so too is referring to oneself as if you're something other than yourself.
There are also tons of other and maybe even better suited examples where taking another perspective is helpful.
Yes there are better examples. I gave one, in fact, where I suggested self-
examination can be a good thing.
Of course we can never 100% take over another persons identity and thus perspective, but using that strict interpretation in this discussion would just lead towards sophism and not help the cause of the discussion at all.
I never suggested you were trying to take another's identity. I suggested that your speaking of yourself, as if you were separate from yourself, which is both annoying and abnormal.
What fails to help this discussion, at all, is you confounding the pathos of trying to take another person's identity with the pathos of speaking of yourself as if you were another entity from yourself. Both practices are abnormal, but they are not the same.
Referring to others
as others is what is normal. Referring to oneself
as oneself is likewise normal.
As a full blown professional in the matter I can just suggest concerning your psychodiagnostic skills, you inform yourself about the proper context and situation of psychodiagnostics and get some basic training before trying to do so.
Cheers
~C.
I do believe you are the one who failed to use proper context and relevant examples, so as a
self-blown professional, you should be quicker to see and admit to having a mild case of narcissism, when this disorder was correctly pointed out (and admitted-to by you) in the first place.
Cheers

Jack
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