If weight is a big consideration, why not consider the 4/3 sensor at all ? Olympus offers excellent optics too, for the money. If you are not that particular about an optical VF, and if there is no fundamental dislike for the 4/3 format, then something like the Panasonic G1 could be a good alternative.
Also, if you are investing in a system from the perspective of future upgradeability to FF, I think either Canon or Nikon are good options. Sony is also an option too, with their A700 (APS-C) and A900 (FF). The A900 has the largest optical viewfinder (with 100% coverage) among all dSLRs excepting the 1DSMKIII....with a 100% viewfinder that is larger than the Nikon D3 or the D3X, but does not have live-view in any shape. Sony has deliberately refrained from introducing features like liveview and video etc from their high-end dSLRs.
Canon and Nikon have excellent selection of lenses, both manufacturer products and also 3rd party products, while Sony is a lot more limited from that perspective but is building up their system from the bottom up, with top glass. Previous Minolta and Konica-Minolta lenses will work too, with Sony. Unlike Canon, Sony does not have the f/4 lenses that sit beneath the f/2.8 versions (17-40 f/4L, 24-105 f/4L IS, 70-200 f/4L (IS and non-IS)), even though a new 24-105 f/4 SSM G is expected anytime now (SSM in Sonyspeak is ring-USM in Canon-speak and "G" in the Sony lens designation is the same level as "L" in the Canon lens range).
If primes float your boat, then only the Sony 35mm, 50mm, 85mm, 135mm etc are stabilized (via the body based stabilization).
The Sony Zeiss lenses are better than all other comparable products around (I am a prior Canon shooter), but if the Zeiss glass with Auto-focus is an important factor, then the choice in the Sony lens range is restricted to 16-35 f/2.8 SSM Vario-Sonnar, 24-70 f/2.8 SSM Vario-Sonnar, 85mm f/1.4 Planar and 135mm f/1.8 Sonnar. The 70-300 4.5-5.6 SSM G is an excellent light-weight option and it is a "G" level lens.