It is still possible to print to ABW using a QTR-generated ICC on OS X if you print from Roy Harrington's Print Tool, but not from other applications. The problem with other applications like PS & LR is that to be able to access ABW in the printer driver you need to select Printer Manages Colors, which precludes specifying an ICC in the printing app, and as you say, there's no longer an option to specify an ICC for ABW in the driver. Print Tool allows you to both specify an ICC and print to ABW.
However that wasn't Dan's problem. ABW wasn't mentioned. He was trying to print to QTR. LR won't take QTR grayscale ICCs but it will take QTR RGB ICCs. Problem solved, once you stumble across this feature of LR.