As a follow-up for future seekers...I ended up with the FLM CP10.
I have been pretty happy with it. Light weight, easy and quick to adjust, stays where I put it, the ball/feet work well. It is solid enough to use with my Fuji GFX 50r, not a small camera.
It has also turned out to be very helpful during Covid when I use my phone for Zoom, google, etc conferencing calls.