You keep throwing in strawmen arguments and should know better that sea ice has nothing to do with your strawmen. Meltwater from glaciers or ice on land has nothing to do with sea ice, the subject in question. Sea water, regardless of how much freezes each year or melts each year to create sea ice, does not contribute to the raising or lowering of sea levels. It may reflect the warming or cooling of the climate or changing weather patterns, but doesn't change sea levels. Even the sea ice that may have been there before for thousands of years has no effect when it melts due to Archimedes principal.
May I suggest you read up on the Thermal expansion characteristics of water?
Coldwater (meltwater) only expands a bit when it starts exceeding 4 degrees Celsius (where water is densest). When it mixes with warmer water and is warmed by the air above, it too will gradually warm up. The warmer the water gets,
the more it expands per degree of temperature rise.
Volumetric Temperature Coefficients - for Water
water at 0°C: -0.000050 (1/°C)
water at 4°C: 0 (1/oC)
water at 10°C: 0.000088 (1/°C)
water at 20°C: 0.000207 (1/°C)
water at 30°C: 0.000303 (1/°C)
Your argument that it follows the opposite path (shrinkage) during winter does not fly because the net volume of water that melts is larger than the volume that freezes. The Arctic region melts faster than it grows back elsewhere (in the antarctic or above land as snow/land-ice), so there will be a net increase of melted ice, i.e. water, and there is thus a net expansion of the water volume, which will thus expand when it warms, which will thus lead to rising water levels, as can be observed and measured.
Cheers,
Bart