Yes, if we want the leadership position then we need to set the example.
Yet, like everyone else I'm tired of our young men sacrificing so much, our economies being set back years and more, and in the end we really don't change middle eastern countries. You won't change any country without a actual war is hell approach and then years of occupation as we did with Germany and Japan. If we are not willing to make real and meaningful change then we should not "go to war."
The "Shot Over the Bow" approach is the worst plan I've ever seen. It's saying "we really don't want to get involved but you need to be punished, so we'll take out a few runways on an helicopter base (and provide you the day and time so no one gets hurt) and call it punishment, okay?
I mean really, can they be serious? Unfortunately yes.
The Israelis have been effective with their actions for the most part when all is considered. When the bad guys do certain bad things the leaders who ordered these things at the highest practical level are targeted. They can't sleep more than a few hours at any one location, every trip by plane, train, or automobile becomes a nightmare. The target's life ceases to function as they know it. They run scared. They can no longer go near their family mosque, or other places they're used to hiding behind because such places aren't recognized as such. And once their car is hit by a hellfire from Blackhawk then the next guy on the list is made known and I'm sure they think long and hard before acting.. because we teach them there are consequences they will pay for personally. The bill will come in their mailbox. And it's done at the least cost and the least life possible. And it's been proven to work.
No wars, no huge costs, and the least life lost. The "rest of the world" might protest and make a few speeches, but really they know the bad guys need punishing and this works without hurting innocents unless the bad guy decides to risk his own family or friends, but nothing large scale. Hell, even the UN finds little to complain about. And you could enact this policy without formal sanctions against the country, sanctions which btw hurt more innocents than actual military actions do.
It's time to change the rules.. make it real to the people who so casually order things like the use of chemical weapons. Go ahead, make my day..