Geez,
If anyone from the US (like BC) would come over here (or from another foreign place), to do a shoot or workshop. I would be happy to loan him something provided I could attend, help out and learn something from them too. Sure, it has to fit into my schedule, etc.. etc.. etc..
I would also probably enjoy meeting someone whose work I like...
But that is just me, compensation comes in many forms. I have a bit of a weird policy where I ask more money for things I enjoy less this goes the other way too. I ask less money for things I enjoy more.
There are tons of people that have helped me out in the past, I have also tried to help out others when I could. When I can I will, when I cannot, pity next time better. I don't see the problem. Maybe if I knew someone like Mr. X would travel in a G6 and Bentley....
Perhaps my message is more, if you can help out and are willing to do so just do it. If you cannot or do not want to, why would you give someone else such a hard time? Just continue on your daily routine.