Dear Ray,
I think what you are referring to is the common experience we share when using different focal lenghts. This experience of course stays the same no matter how we explain it in the end. We look at a wideangle image and say: Wow, now thats a nice perspective! And we mean the whole impression, we dont analyze it. In reality this is incorrect formulated, we should say, what a nice perspective and angle of view! Of course nobody does this! What GIVES this view, IS the perspective, is MY perspective, the point I am standing. The other part is my angle of view.
A good way to think about perspective is to think about objects occluding other objects. When you dont move your head, of course everything remains static. If you move your head around, the occlusion of objects, the direction of lines, etc, change. The actual scenery remains as it is, only your position in space changes. Its my perspective, the point where I look from, my standpoint. If I take a steelplate with a square in it and look through it, that doesnt change perspective. Also a lens at different focal lenghts and same position doesnt change anything about the occlusion of objects. Sure, I might see more things around, the same "crop" is smaller or larger, but the only difference is that I see more around. Likewise, If you dont move your head but focus your attention only at a small thing wide away, and then at the whole scene, nothing changes except your conciousness. And so you could view differnet focal lenghts just as optimized projectors for different attention-angles (funny term but only for the sake of the analogy), that is different view angles.
So yes if you are refering to our common sense - we tend to totally neglect our own effect (walking around!) on perspective and only see what different lenses do - then yes, in common sense, a wideangle gives "a nice perspective", but if we take that apart and really try to understand HOW it works, we need to rethink some of our common phrases, and eventually come to realize that it works somehow different then common sense suggests. And yes, if you where saying different lenses give different viewing experiences (after all, we have them for a reason) if you refer to THAT well there is no dispute that this is correct.
To end here, I read your last posts and tried to understand how you where thinking about it, I hope this makes somehow sense to you.
Christian