What this often comes down to for me is, look in publication - any publication - billboards, magazines, point of purchase display, etc. - and tell me which camera was used for which image. For the most part, it's impossible to tell.
You can look in National Geographic and see images which look like they have amazing dynamic range, , colors, saturation and then you see that the story was shot by some dude who uses Canon 5Ds exclusively. Or it was shot on a Nikon D2x, which has pretty shitty dynamic range, noise issues, etc.
And then you walk into CVS and see some 2 foot beauty shots in the makeup aisle, and they look fuzzy and low resolution, even though they were shot with on a 39 mp back, or on 4x5 film. And you see Annie Leibowitz shooting ads for Disney, American Express, etc. with her Canons, *with zoom lenses attached.*
So I tell myself, while it can be fun to come on these forums and debate until we are all blue in the face, I see the biggest photographers in the world grabbing which ever camera they want to use that day and they shoot the job, take home huge pay checks, and spend no time on web sites like LL defending their decisions. Does anyone out in the real world know which cameras were used? No. Do they care? No. Could they have gotten the job done with 90% of the pro cameras available today? Yes. (I understand showing up with certain equipment in order to impress art directors & retouchers, but that's another story...and if you are shooting for galleries and making The World Largest Prints, then that might be another story too)
Of course these forum arguments are never going to go away. The only way to get beyond them is, like my heroes, you step away from the forums and focus on getting your work done, and stop to smell the flowers when you can.