Alan,
I wouldn't respond if I didn't have some respect for you even though I don't always agree with your politics. If your wife stuck with the public school system as long as she did she is a saint. Even though some may consider me as hippie Hugh, I have read Milton Friedman's Free to Choose which is quite conservative. If you truly are a leader why the pretentious tie. So do Christians not respect Jesus because of how he dressed? The world is different and, more people can see through the delusion. But, yes if I were summoned to court, I would cut my hair and wear a tie. I hope your wife is keeping you in line. She's the real hero.