Just got off the phone with Fuji; very nice and helpful folks, who went through all settings on their cameras while walking me through, and when they got stumped, a higher level tech was brought in. I tested myself on two different X-T3's and two lenses, 16-55 and 18-55, so 4 scenarios. Per Fuji, the darkening/stopping down on AF-C is considered as normal operation, and they suggested enabling Pre-AF to give the camera a head start. I can't say this is an ideal situation for me, but at least I got to the bottom of it.
I'd love to hear from folks with Sony, Nikon Z, or Canon R systems about their experience. My test setup is lazy: reading level light (8footcandles, or 1/60 F/1.4, ISO800) static subject (my opened colorchecker passport on my desk), Single AF point set at lower left Rule of Thirds grid intersection. AF-C, then half press at maximum aperture, then minimum.