The problem, Jeff, in arguing with you, is that you simultaneously fire between five and 25 talking points, or more like blanket statements, each requiring almost their own thread in order to illuminate the issue from all angles, or at least a different angle. You apparently whipped yourself into a frenzy, giving you enough adrenalin to write multiple loooong and angry posts. I can't keep up with that. I am much cooler with what happened. And when I lose in life, I just move on. You seem to be stuck in the fifth stage of grief (shock or disbelief, denial, bargaining, guilt, anger). The next is depression, then acceptance. Come to think of it, it seems you (collective "you") skipped the fourth, guilt.