I had no idea this topic would set off a firestorm.
I knew from the moment I saw that squad car pull up that I'd have to hand over my ID.
I was also prepared to remain calm and to address the officer with respect.
Before handing over my ID, I acknowledged her concerns. I also repeated my reluctance. Neither of us provoked the other to become emotional, irrational, or stupid. To her credit, she observed I was polite, willing to answer her questions, and posed no threat. It is worth noting my handicap parking pass was in plain sight.
I employed common sense body language: hands in view, relaxed posture, and appropriate eye contact. On a nonverbal level, I communicated respect. That is why she put up with my protestations, at least to the point where she decided she'd had enough.
I harbor no ill will towards her. She did her job. And I did what I wanted to do.