Though some 10D's have lasted for 50,000 plus acutations, I would think that 35-40K actuations would be more like a normal life span. The 1D & 1DS are rated for 150,000 actuations and the new 1D Mark II for 200,000 actuations.
Though you may get many more, the D30, D60, 10D, & Digital Rebel are not likely to give you any where nearly as many actuations as the pro-level models.
Maybe Chuck can comment here - but I've not seen actual shutter release ratings for the 10D, but assume it's about the same as the D30/D60.