In the (almost certainly vain) hope that it might improve levels of courtesy on the site, I am considering introducing a requirement that anyone who posts on any forum at LuLa must reveal his or her true name in the post, either as his or her forum name or in the signature. There is, I gather, at least anecdotal evidence that obnoxious behaviour is reduced when anonymity is withdrawn.
This referendum is strictly advisory.
Jeremy
I for one would not post under my own name for a variety of reasons.
First, because it's the internet. Although I have zero social media presence and this is the only place online where I have ever posted comments of any kind, I certainly see commentary everywhere I look online. YouTube, news sites, you name it, commentary is everywhere online and it routinely becomes hostile when some commentors have their assertions challenged or corrected. I'm much more comfortable having any hostility directed at my pseudonym than at me personally. I'm not interested in having online discussions that are personal in nature.
Second, I haven't had anything directed at me that was over the top, but I have received replies that were at least a bit hostile in their tone. And that's enough for me to remain anonymous or quit posting.
Third, I personally knew someone that was fired for their online comments on a forum. And rightfully so, although I did have some sympathy for that person losing their employment. They just couldn't help themselves from using their name and mentioning their employer as if that would lend any credibility to what was posted. It reflected poorly on the employer and after being warned, they continued to do so, and got the boot.
Fourth, the rare vague hostility in tone in replies I have received have, to the best of my recollection, been from people whose identities were known. So, I don't see the point in requiring real names.
Finally, it does not seem to improve the validity of any of the comments made. So again, I don't see the point in requiring real names.
Some see moderation on forums as censorship. I do not. I think forum owners have a right to decide what is acceptable in tone and what is not. But, I would encourage the moderation be based on tone and not real identity.