Dear me. So we should not dare to question people who appear to acting in a bigoted way and have a history of abusive posting and denigrating others.
The suffix 'phobe' is banded around far too easily and readily used as a way of ending debate.
It's simply a relevant question to simply see where someone is coming from, people getting antsy about asking such a thing is rather pathetic.
Someone may disagree with (to use the current example) homosexual practices on religious but that doesnt mean they are homophobe.
So if I dislike people because they are black because my church said it was OK to do so, I'm not a racist then?
Just like there are some people whose business practices i do not like but I quite enjoy their company in a social situation. And in that context the question 'are you a homophobe' is far too loaded because it can mean different things to the questioner and the questioned.
No it has a very simple meaning,
"Dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people." At worst, it is used by the questioner to draw the conclusion 'you are a xxxxphobe therefore an obnoxious person therefore your commentsare invalid and I dont have to explain my own biases'.
Well a bigot by definition is pretty obnoxious/stupid. Biases are also quite different from bigotry and neither does admitting to bigotry necessarily make someone's comments invalid. Giving them context, certainly.
As such a refusal to answer is sometimes the best option lest the main discussion gets divrted.
Really, so how do you think that is working then?