Bottom Line Up Front: For those evaluating the D810 versus the D750 and are concerned about the additional 12 MPs of the D810, I want to let you know not to let it worry you, I did. And there are some benefits from the extra MPs. Base your decision on price, features, weight, etc. Had the D810 been 48MP, I probably would have waived off and settled for the D750.
I went through this process myself knowing that I probably wouldn’t need 36MP images for most of what I do and even when printing very large, I have learned to tease good quality from less pixels than I would like. I finally settled on the D810, however, for a number of reasons including the omission of the OLPF like by D7100 and the button interface.
I shoot the D7100 with 32GB Sandisk Extreme Pro 95 SD Cards. The D810 produces file proportionally bigger, but still use 32GB Lexar Professional 1066X CF and Lexar Professional 600x SD cards. While I get less images per card with the D810, I have not found it an impediment.I transfer using a $12 Trancend USB3 cardreader. It is plenty fast. I don’t keep every frame I shoot like some people. I edit down first for technical issues and then select the best frame(s) from an artistic standpoint. I find neither the storage nor processing overhead a big issue. I use an i7 desktop, but a power miser SU7300 dual core laptop. The biggest issue I have is WIFI speed when viewing from my server to the laptop, but it was already an issue with the D7100 24 MP files.
And there are some benefits to 36MP:
1. I’ve shot the D810 in 1.2x (24MP) and 1.5x (15.6MP) crop modes for sports. At 1.5x it shoots 6fps w/o the external battery grip. While it took a little to get used to the crop viewfinder, I find myself seriously considering selling the D7100 as unnecessary. At 1.5x the D750 gives about 9MP which I find too little. So for times when I need the reach and/or the additional DOF the D810 still gives me enough pixels to work with.
2. When shooting multi-shot, single row images, I find I am seriously tempted to just use the camera in landscape and significantly cut the number of images I would have normally had to shoot. I now evaluate each situation, and determine if I need to go portrait and shoot more images. This is a nice benefit if you are working in quickly changing light.
3. I like the fill the frame. However, I have been caught out a number of times by not being able to repurpose an image to a different aspect or use because of this. With 36MP in hand, I am much more willing to allow for some slack in the frame.
4. There are times when shooting at higher resolution and down sampling provides more detail than a lower resolution camera provided. This is especially true with the slightly sharper per pixel images with no OLPF than a camera with one. And I have yet to have a moiré issue. Don’t know what they algorithm Nikon is using but I give them thumbs up so far.
UPDATE
I've attached a screen grab of ACR. This is not an under exposure, but the -2 stop exposure of a 3F 2 stop bracket set. Even with 2 stops underexposure and all of the data at the left side of the histogram, you can still pull a pretty great result (the subject matter is weak in this example) out of the file with very little shadow noise. This was shot at base ISO 64.