If you don't want to use Lightroom's database capability you can use it very similar to the way you use Camera RAW. The Lightroom gurus consider this is a waste, but not everyone needs or wants a database of their photos. I have used Camera RAW for many years, and don't need or want a database of my photos. I do the following"
Set Lightroom to always write edits to xmp files. You have to import the files into Lightroom's catalog in order to edit them, select to ADD them to the catalog. Complete all you Lightroom edits, exports, prints, etc. and then in Lightroom's Library module select all photos and then under Photo select to Remove Photo from Lightroom Catalog. You do not have to save edits in Lightroom because they are automatically written to the xmp file as you make the edits. You images are still in the original location with the updated xmp file, so you can work on it with Camera RAW or reimport it to Lightroom for additional changes.