I see that you answered my silly questions very seriously. Now I find myself almost obliged to ask some more.
It depends on whether you keep your viewing distance constant or not ... That's why I built some user adjustable variables into my DOF output quality planning tool.
Let me see: I already said that I have the Minolta/Sony 135mm STF lens. As you certainly know, this lens uses an apodisation element to shape the distribution of out of focus highlights. This has an effect on the perceived depth of field. Does your tool account for that?
Another lens I have is the 100mm f/2.0 DC lens. As you probably also know, it has a ring to adjust the amount of spherical aberration, thereby changing the apparence of the depth of field. How to I enter the value of the ring in your tool?
Portrait lenses, for example 85mm f/1.4 or faster or the HC 100mm f/2.2 have a noticeable amount of uncorrected spherical aberration. In effect, they are a bit like the DC lens, with the ring glued into the max position. This is a wanted feature by portraitists, because it gives a flattering appearance to human skin. It also increases the apparent depth of focus. How do I adjust that in your tool?
Depends on the type of sharpness fall-off, which is of course lens specific. Maybe you can use a 2-layer sharpening approach, one sharpened for the center, and one for the corners, and then use a radial mask (blurred for a gradual transition). A Raw converter like Capture One Pro has a user adjustable sharpness fall-off correction built in.
Well... at the time, I tried conversion software from DXO. It includes special routines to improve lens sharpness from supported lens/camera combinations. While these gave excellent results for distortion or lateral chromatic aberration, the far corners stayed rather fuzzy. Is Capture One Pro really better?
The lens characteristics are a given. The only thing you can do is blur the OOF regions even more, maybe starting with a too narrow aperture to begin with if that improves initial bokeh (quality of OOF blur). When the shot is very important it would not be too objectionable to spend some time on it with a tool like Topaz Labs Lens Effects which can also use a depth map for accurate DOF transitions into the fore- / background. Nothing beats the ability to see the actual DOF effect change in real time, even after the shot has been taken.
How does one enter the depth map? Some of my subjects routinely have extensive, complicated depth variations and I think that OOF regions should at least a bit correspond to these. Do you use a 3-D scanner or similar tool?