A small, incandescent "fresnel" light is probably what you want. There are many manufacturers of this type of light since they're a standard tool for the film industry.
A fresnel light can be dimmed, but as Ellis says, the colour temperature will drop as the light is dimmed. Alternatively, light output can be dimmed by putting a wire mesh in front of the lamp. These meshes are custom-sized for the particular light you have and they lower the amount of light without changing its character or colour. These wire meshes are available in photographic increments. A "double" is a wire that cuts the light by about one stop. A "single" cuts it by half a stop. A "half double" is half wire mesh, half empty. Very useful.
Fresnel lights can be spotted or flooded as an alternative to the wire mesh scrims, but the area that's lit will change as you spot or flood.
Shadow softness is dependent on the apparent size of the source as viewed from the subject. The larger the source, the softer the shadow. A point source creates sharp shadows like sunlight, a large area source creates soft shadows like a cloudy day. Un-modified fresnel lights create sharp, hard shadows by default. The apparent size of the source is modified by either passing the light through a diffusion material (available from photographic lighting suppliers) or by bouncing the light off a suitable reflector.
LED lights are available in single emitter versions, unlike the flat, multiple-emitter panels you have probably seen. These are very new and very expensive, but offer continuous dimming and independent choice of colour temperature. Otherwise, they operate much like the tools described above.
Fresnel lights are available in sizes from 250W to thousands of watts. The more wattage, the bigger area you can light. The size of your architectural models will determine the size of lights you require. All of these items are readily available at photographic rental suppliers. Suppliers to the film and video industry will have a better selection than those who service the still photography business.