It's a case of Pandora's Electonic Box. (Not being rude here.)
Was a time I felt life was 'normal' and one could carry on doing much what one had been doing or, alternatively, change everything around, but at least that latter option felt under some sort of control.
Today, things control us.
For example, for no good reason or even any act of mine, my computer's toolbar has leaped from running neatly along the bottom edge of the screen to a new, stupid position along the right edge. This means all the windows I open and view are now narrower and my Desktop layout has been effed. Try as I might, dragging the thing only widens it and there is no way I can find of relocating it peacefully at the bottom of the monitor again. Thank you, Vista, for your new party piece.
You see what I mean about losing control?
Rob C