I don’t post often (though visit a lot), however feel the need to express my increasing frustration with the rudeness and lack of respect that is becoming more and more common in the posts on this forum.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and everyone should feel able to comment and post in whichever thread they wish. However, this should not justify users being disrespectful of, and antagonistic towards, others. Jeremy may not have liked the shot of the couple in the car but, rather than being simply rude, he could have either said nothing or said something more along the lines of “Thanks to BC for posting the shots. I must admit that my preference is for a more realistic look, as shown in some of James’ other work…” I feel a good test of respectfulness is to think to oneself before posting, ‘would I comment using exactly these words if face to face?’
I’m sure that BC is perfectly happy for others to express their opinions of his work, but not when done in such a rude manner. James is brave enough (and generous enough) to post some of his professional work here for others to see; I am not. I really feel that users should be very aware of the fact that, when professional photographers post images of their work here, it can be damaging for them to receive rude and un-constructive critiques. I would like to thank James for his contributions over the years, which I have greatly appreciated and hope that the time never comes when he has finally had enough of the rudeness often displayed and feels unable to share further.
When I first came across this forum in around 2007, I thought it was fantastic: engaging discussions, fantastic images, friendliness and respectfulness. Over recent years I feel that it has been spoiled by a few users who post the same comments time and time again and demonstrate, in my opinion, an ever increasing lack of respect towards others. It is a shame and I hope it does not continue in this manner.
Liam
