Thank you all. You hit exactly all the things I thought of, which is why I'm perplexed. I've added two screen shots. One is the color file with the properties of one of the ICCs I'm looking for opened up. The other is the Lr4 popup from 'other'. This does not show all the ICCs in the screen, but it is alphabetical and the one I want, QTR_1400_RR_FAW_UT14_EB-BLK, should be in the range.
I tried moving all my unused ICCs to a sub folder. This took them out of the Lr4 panel, but the other two did not show up.
I looked in CS4 and the two I want are grouped at bottom along with three others that I created for black and white printing. These are gray scale only ICCs that perhaps Lr4 can't deal with. They are very small, only 5K compared to 800K for standard color ICCs.