Having used both, and being used to heavy filmmaking tripods (which can securely support huge rigs and humans!) - I prefer Aluminium tripods over carbon fiber, even for carrying around. I have a Benro tripod.
Both carbon fiber and aluminium perform similarly in a solid triangular formation. I hate carbon fiber tripods for those instances where I don't have a perfect solid foundation but still need a rigid support - a heavier tripod gives me that slight leeway.
As for the weight, an average human who is reasonably fit can easily carry an aluminium tripod. Your muscles will get used to it in no time. Here's a perspective:
Weight of my 4-section Benro Al tripod (18kg capacity) = 2.38 kg
Weight of a 4-section Gitzo carbon fiber (18kg capacity) = 2.1 kg
Weight of a 5kg capacity Al tripod 190XPRO Manfrotto = 1.8kg
Weight of a 5kg capacity carbon fiber Gitzo = 0.8kg
Weight of a Manfrotto 4-section carbon fiber tripod (5kg capacity) 190CXPRO4 = 1.34 kg
How much is the difference? As you can see, it is about 0.5 to 1 kg or 1 to 2 lbs.
Can your body handle the additional burden of 1 kg or 2lbs for a 6 to 12-hour trek? Here's a perspective on some of the things some professionals carry all day:
Weight of the new ipad = 1.4lb or 0.65kg
Weight of 1L water = 1 kg
A saxophone weighs about 5lbs
A violin weighs about 1lb
A baseball bat weighs about 1 kg or 2.2 lbs
An M16 gun is about 3.5 kg
Obviously, some photographers already carry heavy gear. For them, that additional pound might be too much. For frequent fliers, the additional cost of a carbon fiber might be preferable to paying extra all the time. It's not an easy choice.
The question is, are you comfortable carrying that additional 1kg or 2 lbs? If yes, I believe, based on my personal experience, that the aluminium tripod is more helpful in a wide variety of situations when compared with a carbon fiber tripod.