Thank you for all your answers .
It seems like it's really a matter of taste and opinion, at least for people like me who do know the technologies that go into both processes inside out.
I will say this though, I have been working on a lot of shoots in the past couple years that were taking place at the very top level of the industry, shooting multi-million dollars budget add campaign etc , with lot's of digital agency people etc and on every single shoot we used capture one, no matter who the photographer was. Just like we also used Hasselblad H cameras and not Phase One (Though I am sure they are really good ) This leads me to think C1 is the industry standard and even though that is not in anyway of proof of it's superiority, it at least reassures me that I am not missing out on any critical step .
I will give Light room a try just to see it in action.