Russ, I see you are a writer as well as a photographer. Your accounts of 'bar life' in Thailand seem quite realistic. You really do have an emotional affiliation with that country, as I do, but in different circumstances.
I had my 21st birthday in Bangkok in 1963. I was teaching English and having a wonderful adventure in an exotic land, so much so that I found it very difficult to adjust to 'normal' life in the UK from thereon. Emigrating to Australia, which is close to Asia, seemed the best compromise.
I have a scene in my memory of sitting in a bar in some Soi in Sukhumvit, chatting away to an American GI who was on recreation leave from Vietnam. At some point in the converstation the GI asked me what part of America I came from.
I was surprised, and replied that I came from England in the UK. The GI was also surprised, and a bit confused. "But I can understand you. You speak American", he retorted.
I began to explain that I spoke English and that American was an imported version of English which had been modified in spelling and accent. He didn't seem to understand, so the topic was changed, but I was left with a disturbing question as to how many Americans are not aware that the language they speak had been imported from the UK a few centuries ago.
When it comes to descriptions of Thai culture at the visceral level, the writer John Burdett fits the bill. Have you heard of him?
He's basically writing detective thrillers, related in the first person from the perspective of a Thai policeman whose father was a GI and whose mother was a Thai whore.
The reader is not only getting a pretty good thriller novel, but an exposition of Thai culture, including the corruption and drug dealing in the Thai police force and the Thai Army, and the rivalry between the two forces. Even the spooky Buddhist religion, with its magic and theories of reincanrnation, are a strong part of the narrative. All thoroughly entertaining, in my view.