Clearly, your experience of card failures is at the level of my experience with pro video.
But you have at least read this
http://www.gillavi.com/blog/leica/leica-m9-sandisk-failure/Great. Kind of illustrates the point I was making. Besides, Leica and Sandisk obviously are in full control, aren't they? It would be funny if people weren't losing valuable stuff.
Leica puts the blame on bad cards and suggests the S2, which "doesn't have this problem" (does that mean that the S2 works fine with "bad" cards?). Sandisk blames a bad batch and exchange cards for new ones that show the exact same issue. Does that mean that Sandisk knowingly ships bad cards and doesn't recall them or does that mean that Sandisk doesn't understand the firmware issue Leica has?
The answers are left as an exercise for the buyer, at his expense.
Still, Sandisk is a good brand, but you should definitely read more: these type of incidents happen on a regular basis Nikon, Canon, Fuji, Lexar, Sandisk etc... have all had incompatibilities. Samsung shipped a defective controller with its 512MB generation. Etc...
And try to open a few cards, then you'll realize quite a few different brands, priced at very different levels, are the exact same reference design (Samsung being the most frequent, but the other big names license controllers, designs and mem chips as well).