You mentioned that your husband has Photoshop 7 (?) on his computer... that'll be just fine for converting the images to CMYK for print... in an ideal world the printer will have an established profile that they can send you to make the conversion simple enough to do... if not... if they're at least half way on the ball, their prepress department should be able to send you the specifications for the conversion... these would include - maximum ink density - likely somewhere between 300 and 320% depending in the paper and screen value being used (these are both questions that are imperative to have answers for) dot gain percentage, UCR or GCR values - UCR = Under Colour Removal, GCR = Grey Colour Replacement - these are different CMYK conversion methods that effect the amount of black generated. Also... keep in mind you should do the final image sharpening AFTER you have converted to CMYK and the best method is to sharpen the BLACK (K) channel only. I've art directed, designed and done all production work on multiple large format high-end coffee table books and this is the process that I have followed with absolutely no grief.
cheers, and good luck!
peter