Thanks Bart, I tried to follow your suggestion as best I could and found that CO1 5.2.1's default radius settings of 80 for my sinar dng file seemed to provide quite a good compromise between having smooth transition with no clear border between a very light and very dark area (when radius was reduced to zero) and a thick black line (when radius was increased to max). With radius set at 80 the border was clearly discernible but there was no black line between the dark and light areas.
To do this test I pumped up the amount of sharpening to max to make the black line between light and dark zones as easy to see as possible, then after fiddling with the radius I reduced the amount of sharpening until there were no visible rouge pixels in the dark area, which also ended up being the same amount of sharpening as the default setting that was 180.
So looks like in this particular case the default sharpening settings (amount 180, threshold 0.8, threshold 1.0) are close enough to nirvana for preliminary output to Tifs prior to the final adjustments to sharpening done at the end of the post adjustment process just prior to final output depending on final image size, media etc.