Well, I've set the calibration to the Profoto icc and then ran a profile. I've used that profile sucessfully, thankfully. THe prints are glorious.
Does that contradict what you've posted?
David
No clue from that what you've done but sounds strange. Basic workflow steps very straightforward, but make sure you've set them up right and not just found something that worked (like many out there) ... or some day you'll be sorry.
Camera .... capture images in RAW. All other settings in the camera are only for the in camera jpeg, and used by Adobe Camera Raw and Lightroom to do initial conversion but can be overridden so not permanent.
Convert the images in Adobe Camera RAW, and open them into CS5 as 16bit ProPhotoRGB images. (Lightroom does this all behind the scenes.) As mentioned make sure your CS5 working space is ProPhotoRGB.
Be sure you have a quality profile for your display and be sure the display is set up to use that profile. (never use a working space for a display).
When ready to output, let Photoshop (or Lightroom) manage the colors, and select the correct printer/paper profile so CS5/LR can convert the image data into the appropriate output space. For web jpeg you must convert to the lowest common denominator (which is Internet Explorer) so sRGB.
If this produces unacceptable results, the answer is from other circumstances, such as your viewing station lighting, the brightness of your display, and sometimes even the white point of your display (which often cannot be set to 6500k when trying to get a decent match to the print- it depends on your your viewing station).
Last thing I tell those in my class is don't make the mistake of holding the print up next to the display and wonder why they don't match ... they never will. Two different beasts. In fact, I recommend you set your viewing station up so you cannot see the display and print at the same time ... the simple step of looking away allows adaptation. The goal isn't to get a perfect match, the real goal is to have your monitor be a reliable predictor of what your image will look like when printed.