I have the same setup as you, so hopefully this helps. To get right to the point, ou can't shoot that way. The light meter does not work very well when you're dialed in on 8 stops. I only shoot in Manual mode when using my Vari-N-Duo. Here's my procedure: set the filter to the minimum (2-2/3 stops). Meter the shot and manually focus. Dial in the maximum setting (8 stops), then add exposure with your rear control dial. Mine is set for 1/3 Stop increments, so every 3 clicks is one more stop of exposure. If you go over 30 seconds, you will have to set it to Bulb and time your exposure. I use the MC-36 remote, which has a built-in timer, which comes in very handy.
Anyway, that's how I do it. I hope this helps.