To be more specific, Canon's drivers and plug-ins are now both capable of sending 16 bit data but, at least on the x100 printers, the on-board L-COA processor was *processing* that 16 bit data in a 12 bit mode. The other brands haven't come clean as to what bit depth they are processing their data on board. Some well known evangelists are quick to say that even Epson's $100 printers process data at 16 bits but when I ask direct questions about bit depth processing to Epson's and HP's product managers they are quick to say "no comment" with a grin. Processing that data at higher bit depths gets exponentially more demanding and costly. There a point of diminishing returns and Canon choose to go with 12 bits because they felt it was past that point. Personally I think the distinction between 12, 14, and 16 bits is pretty insignificant and I choose to focus instead of 8 bits vs "high bit depth" paths. And above that, I like to let the final print quality speak for itself. On some printers you can send a grainger rainbow in 8 or 16 bit modes and see a real (albeit small) improvement at high bit depth, whereas on some printers you won't see a difference at all - that's valuable info.
As for the OP's points, there is NO downside to using the Mac - no compromises of saturation or DMax whatsoever. The drivers from all printer brands are equal in this respect in a cross platform manner. Running Qimage on the Mac is a pain that I can't recommend. ImageNest will soon have the same interpolation capability plus a lot more layout capability in a slick, Mac friendly (good looking, intuitive, a joy to use, etc) application. Since ImageNest uses the drivers you can send in 16 bits if the driver supports it.
It sounds like you need to focus on your profiles, paper choices, display calibration, and color management implementation. Grasp the inherent gamut differences that different printing processes and papers provide. I don't think that solutions like Qimage are going to be the magical solution that your looking for. You can get the quality that you're looking for printing from PS or LR when married to the right techniques.