Well, it now looks as if we have some answers from the Adobe website. Dan Tull is saying that, yes, there are serious bugs in the LR 3.0 release and that the LR engineering team are working on them. Presumably there will be a bugfix release in the (hopefully) near future. So we are not imagining things, there is not necessarily anything wrong with our PCs, RAM or OS or video cards, and we all just have to be patient. Fair enough.
If it is at all helpful to anyone else who like me is struggling a bit but carrying on with LR3 for the sake of the new features in the program, my testing over the weekend produced the following results -
* The situation where LR3 crashes at startup may have been caused by the LR3 beta preferences file still being in the User/Application Data/Roaming/Adobe/Lightroom folder. Deleting this seems to have fixed the problem.
* Re-installing LR3 in 32-bit mode did not work for me. I tried it, and on my Win 7 PC all that happened was that it ran even slower (as I would have expected). Very noticeably slower. I have now re-installed LR back to 64-bit.
* My problems are specifically in the Develop module when editing single images. The strange thing is, that they are completely inconsistent. Two similar photos, with the same perspective control adjustments and roughly the same number of brush adjustments, grads, spots etc, will behave differently. One image will barely edit, with frozen brushes and spot removal, the other one will be fine.
Dan Tull says - "I think there's may still some memory buildup issues in Develop to root out, especially around the caches used to improve interactive performance while brushing and spotting, but there's more analysis to be done there and as with any caching we have to be careful not to slow things down by caching too little."
* I was wrong about snapshots. They are not the culprit. The issue seems to be something to do with the way LR caches its editing data, and the way it writes this stuff back to the catalog as you work. I was able to test this with a rogue image which is guaranteed to cause trouble. I deleted the whole folder from the catalog, optimised the catalog and then re-imported the folder, forcing LR to recreate the edited image from the xmp file, not the catalog. When I opened the image again, it worked fine - for a while, until I had edited it once more for a bit.
Roll on LR 3.1
John