This validation result is good. If your print is still coming out a bit too dark, it means that your monitor brightness is a bit too high, inciting you to over-darken the file relative to what you see on paper. Don't trash the profile you just made, but try another with luminance down to about 120 cd/m^2 and try setting gamma at L*. See what the profile validation and a re-adjusted (i.e. brightened) print using the new monitor profile look like.
Thanks Mark,
120 cd/m^2 did the trick. Prints are matching the softproofing so far with the paper I tested (Premium Glossy). I'll try a print with the Premium Lustre.
The dE seems to have degraded slightly but is still acceptable. I'm assuming that I'm right on the edge of the monitor falling apart due to being driven so low as some others have pointed out.
I've been running a Demo License of CEDP which expired today. I made the mistake of installing it before I left to go down to Toronto last weekend for Art Wolfe's seminar (which I really enjoyed) so I haven't had as much time to play with it as I hoped but the Demo had the desired result so I purchased it as it clearly demonstrated itself superior to the bundled software. Thanks ICC for providing a demo.
I'm going to try a couple of luminance values between 120 and 140 to see if I can get the dE down a bit.
Again, thanks to all the posters here for pointing me in the right direction and sharing their knowledge of this rather black art.
Lessons Learnt:
A Really Nice Bright Monitor that is good for gaming is probably not useful for proofing prints in PhotoShop
There may be differences in colorimeter hardware but there are also differences in the software. You do get what you pay for.
If your serious about your craft and willing to spend money on lenses & bodies be prepared to also send money on the right tools to post process if you want consistency in your results.