I think Jeff hit the proverbial nail on the head regarding the brightness of display monitors. I have two 24" monitors and during calibration and use, I actually have to manually turn down the brightness to only 20%! As it is, I calibrate the upper end to 200. Much dimmer and I start having color shifts.
However, the error I believe I see is two-fold. Number One: you really should be using a calibrated lightbox (not bulbs) to properly view a match print. Number Two: your 4700 degree bubs are significantly warmer than your calibration setting of 6500. While theoretically, this should only effect color, in practice, I've seen it effect perceived density and contrast. You might want to consider buying yourself a light booth such as a JUST Normlicht. I proof a lot of prints for offset printing (both from RGB and CMYK files) and nail it 95% of the time.
Nemo