Jerry: This may be OT, but it might offer some perspective... An old friend of mine (now retired), used to work with people with mental challenges. One day she was at a conference and she came across a woman in a wheelchair. This woman had next to no mobility at all, to the point that her wheelchair rocked back and forth to alleviate the possibility of bedsores. At the same time, she was a very strong, upbeat woman, and my friend asked her if she would be interested in joining the disabled women's network. "But I'm not disabled," was her reply. "I can do everything I want to do."
Mike.