Chris
I'm not the sharpest internet knife in the drawer, so perhaps the answers to my next couple of questions/suggestions already exist and I simply can't find them because I don't know how or where to look.
Q 1. If a person makes a complaint, is that complaint registered in a manner visible to the rest of the forum members?
Q 2. Taking stampers's point, which was semi-formulating in my mind before I returned here and read his input, would it not be a reasonable idea for two things to happen: a. the offended person should post and indicate that a complaint has been lodged, within the thread; b. he should explain where he finds offence.
This would achieve several things, not least amongst which, one would know with which people one can be light-hearted, and also those with whom it is better not to jest. Much like real life, in other words, with the advantage that awkwardness might be prevented.
I don't imagine any here are unmindful of the value of the site to each of us; however, there is an unpleasant undercurrent stirring when unknown persons seem able to manipulate life for others under a cloak of anonymity. Disclosure (here as in politics), would, of course, in no way prevent the Administration from doing what it felt to be in the best interests of LuLa and might encourage people to think a little more deeply before crying foul!
Rob C
