I use the flex adapter with a P45+, I don't think it would work well at all with the P65+
They actually never got the software part updated to work well with the P45
Maybe you should talk to your dealer and try one out first.
I don't think the click stops for 2 shots would line up correctly, there would be too much overlap
The 3 shot setting does not even work with the P45 size sensors, it was for the smaller H5 size, way too much overlap for the larger sensors
It is not a graflok, you can change the plate where the back attaches, but where the adapter itself fits to the view camera it is a specific built in mount for Sinar cambo toyo etc.
The ground glass is aprox 6x9cm The focus alignment seems good, I don't know if it is precise enough for the P65+ or not.
Phase One is not really supporting the flex adapter that well anymore. The software part of the stitching has not been fully implemented since Capture one 3.7
You might look at Kapture Group for some options, you can give the owner a call, they have some interesting sliding backs for stitching.