That's all great but, again, it doesn't matter that much. On my display calibrated to around 5400K I see white as neutral white under my viewing conditions. When I send you one of my images you will see it as I see it (beside limitations of the monitors...) even if your display is set to 6500K... because you see the white on your display as a neutral white (if this is the case). That simple.
Not quite true.
The human eye is very easily fooled in what we see as neutral gray.
When you work with a 1000 degrees difference you will most certainly see the difference.
It could be that we both see the file as neutral but when you set both monitors next to each other there is a huge difference.
In my setup I have no light hitting my screen due to a hood and blinds on the windows were I do the editing.
There's really no disscussion needed for calibration to D6500 it's writen almost in stone that a display should be calibrated to that point on the grayscale.
for more info do a search on for example ISF or visit
www.imagingscience.com.
Some photographers will claim that the settings/rules for TV or projectors will not apply for them as photographers but this is simply not true anymore.
As explained before most of our work is shown in slideshows, digital billboards, TV sets, projectors or many different monitors.
For the REFERENCE monitors/projectors the D6500 is chosen as the point to calibrate.
It's only natural that we as photographers/videographers also calibrate conform the industry standard.
REMEMBER this is totally different than a few years back when photographer shot film or only delivered prints.
With those workflows only the end result was show to the client and you must choose the colortemp fitting your other workflow.
Today however all the rules have changed and our work is hardly ever seen on print in most cases expect at the very end of the cycle.
When we all calibrate to the same standard (the industry standard) it would mean that everyone sees exactly the same thing.