I hear all the definitive statements about GND filters being unnecessary but I have to surmise that this is from folks who obviously don't take photographs with trees in them, have no wind or breezes and no moving clouds ....
I use blending when I can but often run into registration problems with foliage, resulting in ugly fringing if the exposure difference is significant and/or ghosting. I can clean this stuff up but its tedious work that requires care to ensure it's not visible.
I often do night illumination shots where I blend tungsten balanced foregrounds against daylight balanced skies - this works extremely well and I would concede isn't the type of thing that you could do easily with filters. Similarly static scenes requiring local balancing works well with blended images. Images with any movement in them, however, are a lot of work to do well. For these, a GND is much simpler and faster.
I don't agree with the premise that selecting a grad is difficult at all. If you can meter a scene and perform range subtraction then it is simple. Similarly positioning a grad isn't that difficult, particularly with a DSLR and hard grads.
Anyway, just my $0.02 on this subject. (again)